{"id":94271,"date":"2026-01-14T14:34:33","date_gmt":"2026-01-14T19:34:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/muslimmatters.org\/?p=94271"},"modified":"2026-01-14T14:34:33","modified_gmt":"2026-01-14T19:34:33","slug":"the-sandwich-carers-navigating-the-islamic-obligation-of-eldercare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/muslimmatters.org\/2026\/01\/14\/the-sandwich-carers-navigating-the-islamic-obligation-of-eldercare\/","title":{"rendered":"The Sandwich Carers: Navigating The Islamic Obligation Of Eldercare"},"content":{"rendered":"

The sandwich generation, or \u2018sandwich carers\u2019, refers to adult individuals who provide unpaid care to ageing parents or older relatives while simultaneously raising their dependent children. In the UK, around 2% of the population1<\/a><\/sup>https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0033350624004979<\/span> provides \u201csandwich care,\u201d balancing responsibilities for both children under 16 and older adults in need of support.<\/span> Whereas in the US, the percentage is much higher, with <\/span>23% of adults “sandwiched between their children and an ageing parent.”2<\/a><\/sup>https:\/\/www.pewresearch.org\/short-reads\/2022\/04\/08\/more-than-half-of-americans-in-their-40s-are-sandwiched-between-an-aging-parent-and-their-own-children\/<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

This study proved that – unsurprisingly – sandwich generation carers are at a greater risk of mental health struggles and need support.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Equity In Eldercare<\/b><\/h2>\n

In my youthful naivete, I strongly believed that when it came to looking after one\u2019s ageing parents, it had to be distributed equally according to the number of children. By my logic, if an elderly couple had four children, then all four of them had to take turns to look after their parents. Only children have the responsibility of caring for both ageing parents with no siblings to lean on, except for a loving and supportive spouse, if they have one.<\/span><\/p>\n

Many decades later, I have come to realize that no matter how many children there are in a family, except in rare circumstances, the bulk of eldercare usually falls on one adult child and his\/her spouse and children. One of my friends, a Malaysian cardiologist who encounters many ageing elders, echoes seeing the same thing in her clinical practice across both Muslim and non-Muslim families.<\/span><\/p>\n

The rise of individualism in today\u2019s world is probably a driving force in elder neglect. When families lived closer together, the norm was for all children to help in the care of their elders. With the rise in economic migration and diaspora Muslim communities, the elders who did not move with their children are often left behind in their old age.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Cultural Expectations vs Islamic Obligations<\/b><\/h2>\n

There seem to be many cultural “myths” when it comes to caring for elders. In Malaysia, where I live, the responsibility for eldercare often lies with adult daughters, even if families have sons. This may be due to the strongly matriarchal society and women often being the main income earners. In other parts of the world, the emphasis is on adult sons looking after their parents, even if they also have daughters. Desis have an expectation of the eldest son caring for his parents, when the actual work gets shifted onto his wife.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The reality is this: Islamically, eldercare responsibility lies on <\/span>all<\/span><\/i> adult children, regardless of gender. Caring for one\u2019s parents is a fardul \u2018ain<\/em> (individual responsibility), and not a fardul kifayah<\/em> (communal responsibility). One child caring for an ageing parent does not lift the responsibility from other children.<\/span><\/p>\n

An Unfortunate Bias<\/b><\/h2>\n
\"eldercare\"

“The reality is this: Islamically, eldercare responsibility lies on all adult children, regardless of gender.” [PC: Raymond Yeung (unsplash)]<\/p><\/div>Often, the hidden subtext of the adult son looking after his parents is this: while he goes to work and earns an income to support his family, it\u2019s actually his wife who is expected to look after his parents. She\u2019s the one already looking after their children, after all, so the cultural expectation is for her to extend her caregiving duties to her in-laws. Why not? She\u2019s already at home, anyway, right?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Caring for her in-laws is not her Islamic <\/span>obligation<\/span><\/a> – her obligation is to care for her husband, children, and <\/span>her<\/span><\/i> parents! Undoubtedly, she will be rewarded for caring for her in-laws, but once again, that is not her obligation. A daughter-in-law caring for her husband\u2019s parents is a <\/span>recommended act<\/span><\/a> which is not lost on Allah \"sub\u1e25\u0101nahu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it\u2019s important to realize a burnt-out daughter-in-law will be less likely to fulfil her actual obligations: her husband and children. May Allah \"sub\u1e25\u0101nahu guide and have mercy on all of our families, and help us all do better.<\/span><\/p>\n

No Easy Answers, But Everything Is From Allah \"sub\u1e25\u0101nahu<\/b><\/h2>\n

When it comes to equitable eldercare, there is no one-size-fits-all solution for families who are spread throughout the globe. Even with all adult children in the same city, eldercare is probably not distributed equitably either. Someone will have to sacrifice something for an unknown period of time.<\/span><\/p>\n

In the best case scenario, all adult siblings step up in their best ways possible, put their differences aside, and work as a team to care for their ageing parents. Sadly, this is not always the case. When eldercare is left to only one adult child and his\/her household, it can be so frustrating to ask for help, only to have minimal response from other siblings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

What helps is always turning to Allah \"sub\u1e25\u0101nahu and making choices that align with His Pleasure. If you are bearing the load of eldercare, please know that this is a sign of Allah’s Love and honouring of you, through service to your elderly parents. Their dua’s for you will bring about tremendous goodness to you – even if it may not be immediately apparent.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tips For Making Eldercare Easier<\/b><\/h2>\n

If you are the main carer for both elders and young children, here are some tips that may help:<\/span>
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\n<\/span>1) Build a strong support network: <\/strong><\/span>Nobody can look after elders or children on their own without burning out, let alone when looking after both age groups! Please don\u2019t wait until you are on the brink of a mental breakdown, but rather proactively have a conversation with family and\/or loved ones, and discuss how everyone can help support you in caring for the elders under your care.<\/span>
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\n<\/span>2) Build in breaks: <\/strong><\/span>Try your best to build in regular daily, weekly, monthly and yearly \u2018pressure release valves\u2019 – for lack of a better term. When family comes to visit and spends quality time with your ageing elder, use that opportunity to rest and recharge. <\/span>
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\n<\/span>3) Elder vacations: <\/strong><\/span>Before elders struggle with more severe health issues, arrange for them to go for a holiday in another adult child’s household. Even if they might be reluctant to leave their comfort zone, this break will give a much-needed respite for the main household of carers.<\/span><\/p>\n

4) Acceptance: <\/strong><\/span>Sadly, as health issues often worsen in old age, there will come a time when ageing parents will no longer be able to travel. This is the time for them to be visited and cared for, especially by adult children who live far away or are absent for other reasons.<\/span><\/p>\n

Imam Ahmad narrated that Usamah bin Sharik (may Allah be pleased with him) said, \u201cI was with the Prophet Muhammad (Alla when the Bedouins came to him and said, \u2018O Messenger of Allah, should we seek medicine?\u2019 He said, \u2018Yes, O slaves of Allah, seek medicine, for Allah has not created a disease except that He has created its cure, except for one illness.\u2019 They said, \u2018And what is that?\u2019 He said, \u2018old age.\u2019\u201d [Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud<\/a>]<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Conclusion<\/b><\/h2>\n

Marriage is a lifelong commitment that not only includes the care and raising of children, but also the care and burying of elders. When families were closer together and Islamic values were more prevalent, discussions around eldercare weren\u2019t even necessary among siblings. Elders were cherished and cared for by their adult children and grandchildren until the end of their long and blessed lives.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now, there needs to be a revival of more intentional conversations around eldercare, especially with the rise of individualism and the cultural bias that expects only eldest\/youngest sons to do the heavy lifting. Every single adult child has a role to play, even if it’s inconvenient. The door of service to our elders is a golden opportunity that only lasts for as long as they are with us in this dunya. Once they pass away, that door closes, never to be opened again.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Related:<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

– Avoid Financial Elder Abuse Through Islamic Principles<\/a><\/p>\n

– Restoring Balance In An Individualized Society: The Islamic Perspective on Parent-Child Relationships<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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